Prayer: A Primer

Prayer is one of the most important parts of a Christian lifestyle. Very few Christians – and I include myself – pray as much as we could and should. Some believers fall short because they don’t know how to pray or what to pray for. God (who’s much sharper than us) anticipated this problem. Throughout His Word there are examples of prayer that we can study to our benefit.

All of the New Testament epistles written to the Christian churches contain prayers. Paul, the writer, spent much time in prayer for the believers. But it was God, by revelation, who told him to write about it. These prayers express God’s heart for us – today.

Let’s look at an example from the first chapter of the first epistle.

Romans 1:8, 9
First, I thank my God through Jesus Christ for you all, that your faith is spoken of throughout the whole world.
For God is my witness, whom I serve with my spirit in the gospel of his Son, that without ceasing I make mention of you always in my prayers;

Hold it! That can’t be true. In verse nine Paul says he prays “without ceasing.” I mean, the guy has to sleep sometime.

You’re right, it isn’t literally true (of the apostle Paul). But don’t worry, God had Paul write it that way on purpose. It isn’t an error, it’s a figure of speech. God wants us to stop and consider His words.

This figure emphasizes that Paul prayed during every available moment. God commands us to do the same.

1 Thessalonians 5:17
Pray without ceasing.

(By the way, if you want an easy verse to memorize, this would be a good one.)

Romans 1:9, however, speaks to more than Paul’s prayer life. The first half of the verse, “God is my witness, whom I serve with my spirit,” reminds us that Paul’s prayers arose from God’s heart.

I’ve heard many Christians, when quoting the epistles, to put too much emphasis on the man, Paul, as if he were some theologian. We must remember that Paul was God’s man. And “holy men of God spake as they were moved by the Holy Ghost.” Paul wrote in the first person because God commanded it. These are words the Holy Spirit, God, taught to Paul – he received them by revelation. They are God’s Word.

With this in mind, read the verses from Romans again. This is God’s heart for you. Unlike Paul, God is able to remember you, think about you, and desire the best for you without ceasing. You’re in his heart 24/7. We’re God’s children, He is our father.

Picture a happy home presided over by an ideal father. As children of the Most High, that’s where we live.

Ephesians 2:19
Now therefore ye are no more strangers and foreigners, but fellowcitizens with the saints, and of the household of God;

Don’t act like a sullen teenager – talk to Him! That’s what prayer is. Prayer isn’t something we should reserve for once a week while kneeling in a church building. We should start our day by saying good morning to our Dad. Then, anytime we remember Him throughout our day, say a few words. It’s also a good idea to set aside some time every day to sit down and have a chat with Him. Our aim should be to pray “without ceasing.”

What are the different kinds of prayer? What do I talk about with my Father? Here are a few examples.

First we can simply acknowledge his presence – remember Him throughout the day.

Gal 4:6 [Lamsa Bible]
And because you are sons, God has sent forth the Spirit of his Son into your hearts crying, Abba, Abon, O Father, our Father.

How about saying, “thank you,” for the many things He’s done for us?

Psalms 100:4
Enter into his gates with thanksgiving, and into his courts with praise: be thankful unto him, and bless his name.

We may request specific things we need.

Philippians 4:6
Be careful [anxious] for nothing; but in every thing by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known unto God.

Ask Him to help out our family, friends, and coworkers.

1 Timothy 2:1
I exhort therefore, that, first of all, supplications, prayers, intercessions, and giving of thanks, be made for all men;

Pray for our enemies. You would be amazed how many times this can turn an enemy into a friend – though it’s not guaranteed!

Matthew 5:44
But I say unto you, Love your enemies, bless them that curse you, do good to them that hate you, and pray for them which despitefully use you, and persecute you;

Request wisdom and spiritual understanding. I always need more of that.

Colossians 1:9
For this cause we also, since the day we heard it, do not cease to pray for you, and to desire that ye might be filled with the knowledge of his will in all wisdom and spiritual understanding;

Pray for those in authority. I may not wants to pray for politicians but God says to do it. Remember, His thoughts are higher than our thoughts.

1 Timothy 2:2
For kings, and for all that are in authority; that we may lead a quiet and peaceable life in all godliness and honesty.

Ask Him for the opportunity and ability to serve Him.

Acts 4:29
And now, Lord, behold their threatenings: and grant unto thy servants, that with all boldness they may speak thy word,

Thank Him for all the things that He’s promised He will do in the future.

Hebrews 10:35, 36
Cast not away therefore your confidence, which hath great recompence of reward.
For ye have need of patience, that, after ye have done the will of God, ye might receive the promise.

Before I wrap up I’d better handle a question that somebody always asks. “Why should we pray for things when God already knows that we need them?”

Naturally, somebody else always answers, “I heard this theory that…”

Everybody, it seems, has a theory about why God tells us to do certain things. Are you wondering if I have a theory? I certainly do! My theory is that we should stop making up theories. Simply read the words and believe what is written. We pray because the Bible says so.

So, talk to your Dad. He already wrote a big thick book to reveal how much He loves you. It would only be polite to say a few words in return!

1 Thessalonians 5:16-18
Rejoice evermore. Pray without ceasing. In every thing give thanks: for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus concerning you.

You and I both have lots of “dead time” during the course of a day – driving, waiting for an appointment, cooking supper. God’s word encourages us to turn this into “live time” in prayer. We can give God thanks in every single situation because He is always able and willing to give us the victory.

1 Corinthians 15:57
But thanks be to God, which giveth us the victory through our Lord Jesus Christ.